\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i:<\/b>\u00a0Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed (313 – 235 tr\u01b0\u1edbc C\u00f4ng nguy\u00ean) n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady” . Em ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean.<\/span><\/p>\n B\u00e0i l\u00e0m<\/b><\/p>\n Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed, c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Tu\u00e2n Hu\u1ed1ng (235 tr\u01b0\u1edbc C\u00f4ng nguy\u00ean), nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 v\u00e3n l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c th\u1eddi Chi\u1ebfn qu\u1ed1c. Ong khuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c, khuy\u1ebfn thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1\u00fd d\u1ed7 m\u1edbi n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n \u00d4ng n\u1ed1i v\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1edd\u0129 b\u1ea1n, k\u1ebb th\u00f9 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, trong s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t hay. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i b\u00f9a \u00f4ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi truy\u1ec1n t\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u00f4n, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n:<\/p>\n “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, ninh b\u1ee3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a t\u00e1 v\u1eady”.<\/i><\/p>\n T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta? D\u00e1m ch\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn. Ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng qu\u00fd, c\u00e0ng ph\u1ee5c. Ta c\u1ecd l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i, c\u1ed9 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ea,, ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd,, kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o m\u00f4t con b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c do m\u1ed9t danh y \u0111em cho. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi;c\u00f3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ee9c cai c\u1ea3 m\u1edbi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i, th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt ch\u00ea, ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i, ch\u00ea \u0111\u00fang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh, \u0111\u00e1ng t\u00f4n th\u1edd, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta. Th\u1ea7y v\u00ec h\u01a1n ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft. Th\u1ea7y v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea3o ban, khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7. Th\u00f3i th\u01b0\u1eddng “trung ng\u00f4n ngh\u1ecbch nh\u1ec9”. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng m\u1edbi d\u00e1m \u0111em \u0111i\u1ec7u hay l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7u mong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edd n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111ep, ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e2n.<\/p>\n \u00d4ng b\u00e0 ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con ch\u00e1u:<\/p>\n “M\u1eadt ng\u1ecdt th\u00ec ru\u1ed3i ch\u1ebft t\u01b0\u01a1i,<\/i><\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i cay \u0111\u1eafng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i th\u1eadt th\u00e0”,<\/i><\/p>\n “Nh\u1ea5t, t\u1ef1 vi s\u01b0,, b\u00e1n t\u1ef1 vi s\u1ee9”. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta. Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9i \u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u00e1i ph\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta”. Ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed chung c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khen m\u00e0 khen \u0111\u00fang \u00ed\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khen \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, khen v\u00f4 t\u01b0. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 lu\u1ed3ng gi\u00f3 m\u00e1t l\u00e0nh th\u1ed5i qua t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 tinh th\u1ea7n, ph\u00e1t huy t\u00ednh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khen d\u00fang, khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi v\u00e0ng ng\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u, l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, t\u1ed1t th\u00eam, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00eam. Nh\u01b0 ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng to l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u ta, c\u00f3 qu\u00fd ta m\u1edbi khen ph\u1ea3i, m\u1edbi d\u00e0nh cho ta nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c, c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i khen ph\u1ea3i. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta”.<\/p>\n T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady? Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng, l\u00e0m v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ng\u1ecdn ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01a1n tr\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m “ph\u1ed5ng m\u0169i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta! Vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7, m\u01a1n tr\u1edbn, mua chu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u l\u1ee3i. S\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh s\u1ebd b\u1ecb sa ng\u00e3. N\u1ecbnh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 ngai v\u00e0ng. C\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1, c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u1ec1m nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc; th\u1ebf m\u00e0 “n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y \u0111\u00e1 m\u00f2n”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 c\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f2n s\u1eafc h\u01a1n dao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0i m\u00f2n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i t\u00e2m h\u1ed5n, l\u00e0m b\u0103ng ho\u1ea1i l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft.<\/p>\n Trong truy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n gian c\u00f3 truy\u1ec7n “Th\u1ed1i th\u1eadt” nh\u1eb1m ch\u00e2m bi\u1ebfm k\u1ebb n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1eadt ng\u1ecdt ch\u1ebft ru\u1ed3i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3, ph\u1ea3i ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed: “Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 ta, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady”.<\/p>\n C\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1eb9p. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m s\u1ed1ng gi\u00e0u \u00fd ngh\u0129a; n\u00eau l\u00ean ti\u00eau ch\u00ed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, k\u1ebb th\u00f9.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o (\u0111\u1ea1o l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi). Ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n (b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t) \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n k\u1ebb th\u00f9, b\u1ecdn xu n\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t ch\u00fang ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n trong s\u1ea1ch, s\u1ed1ng th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i:\u00a0Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed (313 – 235 tr\u01b0\u1edbc C\u00f4ng nguy\u00ean) n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb vu\u1ed1t ve, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady” . Em ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. B\u00e0i l\u00e0m Tu\u00e2n T\u1eed, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":""},"categories":[162,1301],"tags":[1360,1359],"yoast_head":"\n